Sunday, September 23, 2007

How To Pick The Right Guy

"Most women will tell you they've dated 'bad boys,'" White says. And in discussing "bad boys," she is not referring to dangerous, controlling men, men who threaten your safety by verbally or physically abusing you.

She is not talking about men with anger issues, who might be secret gamblers or substance abusers. Those men are to be avoided at all costs. These "bad boys" are the ones who can't commit and will just drive you crazy when you try to have a relationship with them.

You have to figure out how to stop the pattern of picking the wrong guys. White says, "The problem is that once you've been through this kind of emotional wringer, you really start to doubt yourself. You ask yourself, 'What did I do wrong?' Well, you need to take a look at the pattern."

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